Welcome

Personalised Ceremonies by Adrienne Thomas
Compassionate, Creative, Experienced

Every life tells a story. and  I help you tell it.

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I’m Adrienne Thomas, an independent funeral celebrant with over 15 years" experience supporting families through one of life’s most challenging times. Based in the UK, I create bespoke ceremonies that reflect the unique character, beliefs, and legacy of your loved one ,

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How Might I Help?

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As a celebrant, I provide a meaningful alternative to a traditional religious service. You have complete freedom to shape the ceremony in a way that feels right for you — whether that's including hymns and prayers, favourite music, poetry, personal tributes, or something entirely different. No idea is too unusual if it brings your loved one to mind.

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I offer help and guidance in choosing and placing suitable music, poems, readings, prayers and committal words to be read at the end of the ceremony. I liaise with the funeral director in creating an Order of Service sheet if required and being mindful of including messages from friends, family and colleagues who are able to attend on the day. I have a collection of suitable poems and readings which I normally forward to families ahead of the initial meeting whilst being open to their own suggestions and ideas. Unfortunately there is a limited amount of time available  in a crematorium chapel but as a funeral is not a legal ceremony; it is possible to hold it anywhere - a village hall, a garden even a pub if it suits the style of the person we will be honouring. In this way, we can spend more time allowing a relaxed atmosphere.

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Where Do We Begin?

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I begin by meeting you in person (or via phone or Zoom) to learn about your loved one and what matters to your family. Together, we build a ceremony — step by step — with your full input and approval. I can read on behalf of others, include tributes from afar, and help you find the right words and tone. The "script" which I use on the day will have passed back and forth, sometimes undergoing several drafts until it meets with the family's approval so that they feel fully in control of events.

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Why Have a Funeral?

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Funerals are not just about loss. They are an expression of love. Every life deserves a ceremony that says, “Thank you. You mattered. Goodbye.” That belief is at the heart of all I do. The community which gathers around the ritual of a life celebration may provide much needed strength and comfort in the days following a loss;  they also offer a space in which to express feelings which in Western culture are not often held or approved of. They mark the continuation of a person's life, offering further memories which will continue to keep them relevant, loved and missed.  A truly relevant ceremony is a final chance to remember and celebrate and pay respects to someone who has touched many lives.

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What People Say 

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"Thank you so much for all you did today conducting the service in the best way possible. " 

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"You were fab! Dad would have loved it" 

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"No-one could believe you hadn't met her. You captured her perfectly" 

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" You comforted the ears of the bereaved with your voice.!" 

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"I would like you to know how very much it meant to us, the way you presented the celebration . We have received many comments from people who were very moved" 

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"Your calm and gentle strength throughout was invaluable" 

"Fantastic !Thank you from the bottom of my heart . So much brillliant feedback from others."